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Before You Begin

Threading the Wild is a structured therapeutic journey rather than open-ended counselling. To gain the greatest benefit from the programme, it asks for your active participation between sessions.

The programme

  • The journey consists of 12 individual therapeutic sessions, including an introductory session and a concluding integration session.

  • Sessions are normally held weekly or fortnightly, depending on your circumstances and therapeutic needs.

Between-session exploration

Much of the learning takes place between our meetings.

You will be invited to spend time observing, reflecting and engaging with your own experiences in the living world.

This includes:

  • Keeping a journal throughout the programme (required).

  • Spending regular time in nature between sessions (required).

Nature does not need to mean remote forests or mountains. Your exploration may take place wherever is realistic and meaningful for you: your own garden, a local park, a canal, a woodland, the beach, open countryside, or any green space that allows you to pause, observe and encounter the living world.

Reading

Throughout the programme, I will suggest books, articles, poems or other resources that may deepen your reflections.

The suggested reading is strongly encouraged, but you are equally welcome to bring your own books, writers, traditions or perspectives into our conversations. This is a collaborative journey rather than a prescribed curriculum.

Your Personal Ecology Portfolio

Alongside your journal, I warmly encourage you to create a personal portfolio of your journey.

This might include journal entries, sketches, photographs, poems, maps, pressed leaves, quotations, dreams, reflections, field notes, museum tickets, bookshop discoveries, or anything else that becomes part of your unfolding relationship with the living world.

By the end of the programme, many participants find that this becomes a unique record of their own developing personal ecology.

A therapeutic programme

Although Threading the Wild incorporates nature, reflection and personal exploration, it remains a professional psychotherapy programme.

All the usual ethical, professional and clinical standards of my practice continue to apply throughout the journey.

Participation is therefore subject to the same therapeutic contract, confidentiality, cancellation policy and professional boundaries that govern all psychotherapy sessions. A copy of the therapeutic agreement will be provided before the programme begins.

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Threading the Wild is a phenomenological journey into relational consciousness, using encounters with the living world as a way of rediscovering meaning, belonging, aliveness, and each person's own conversation with what they experience as sacred.

A therapeutic journey into relationship, aliveness and the living world

There are moments in life when our usual ways of making sense of ourselves are no longer enough.

We may feel disconnected, overwhelmed, intellectually stimulated but spiritually undernourished, or quietly aware that something essential has been lost. We continue to function, yet life feels somehow flatter than it once did. We long not simply to feel better, but to feel more fully alive.

Threading the Wild emerged from that question.

Not from a desire to create another form of eco-therapy, nor from a wish to teach a spiritual path, but from a lifelong exploration of what happens when human beings enter into a genuine relationship with the living world.

Where this journey began

Many years ago, sitting beside Lake Cavazzo in north-eastern Italy, I experienced something that has quietly shaped my life ever since.

As I looked across the water, I wasn't simply seeing a lake surrounded by hills. I became aware of an unfolding conversation: water evaporating into clouds, rain returning to the mountains, streams feeding the lake, vegetation responding to the seasons, soil, wind, atmosphere and light participating in one continuous movement.

For the first time, I realised that I wasn't looking at separate things: I was witnessing relationships.

And, in that moment, I no longer felt separate from them.

That experience stayed with me.

It eventually led me to study ecology and systems thinking, searching for ways of understanding this profound sense of interconnectedness. Yet something was missing. The scientific language explained relationships beautifully, but it could not fully express their lived, existential, and deeply personal significance.

My search gradually expanded into phenomenology, existential philosophy, Jungian psychology, anthropology, spirituality and, ultimately, the development of my own research framework: paleophenomenology, which explores the emergence of human consciousness through our embodied relationship with the world.

Along the way, I encountered many inspiring traditions: some emphasised ecology, others psychology, others spirituality. More recently, discovering the Church of the Wild resonated deeply with me because it articulated something I had been exploring for decades: that our relationship with the living world can itself become a place of reverence, meaning and transformation.

Yet Threading the Wild follows its own path.

A different way of approaching therapy

This is not therapy outdoors.

It is not forest bathing.

It is not a spiritual retreat.

It is not a course in ecology.

And it is not about adopting a particular belief system.

Instead, it is a structured therapeutic journey that brings together existential psychotherapy, phenomenology, Jungian thought, ecology, embodied awareness and contemplative reflection.

At its heart lies a simple question:

How do I enter into a relationship

with the living world

and how does that relationship

change the way I understand myself?

Nature is not used here as a therapeutic tool or pleasant backdrop; rather, it becomes a conversation.

A woodland, a canal, a coastline, a ruined church, a mountain path, a city park, birdsong at dawn, the changing seasons, the wind across open fields, or the quiet rhythm of rain may each become invitations into deeper awareness.

Different places speak to different people.

There is no single landscape that heals everyone.

Part of the journey is discovering your own.

Discovering your personal ecology

Throughout our lives, we are repeatedly drawn towards particular places.

Perhaps forests calm you.

Perhaps wide horizons allow you to breathe.

Perhaps it is rivers, marshes, old trees, gardens, cliffs, caves, or the sea.

These preferences are rarely accidental.

They form part of what I call our personal ecology: the unique constellation of landscapes, rhythms, weather, memories, sensory experiences and encounters through which we feel most fully ourselves.

The aim is not to tell you where you should belong.

It is to help you discover where, and how, you already do.

Relationship before interpretation

Much of modern life encourages us to analyse everything immediately.

Phenomenology invites something different.

Before asking, "What does this mean?", we first ask: "What am I actually experiencing?"

How does my body respond in this place?

How does it feel to feel alive?

What memories emerge?

What images appear?

What changes in my breathing, my attention, my sense of time?

What feels alive?

This gentle shift [from explanation towards encounter] often reveals aspects of ourselves that have been quietly waiting to be noticed.

The symbolic life

Alongside direct experience, dreams, imagination, poetry, creative writing, drawing and Jungian reflection may become companions on the journey.

Symbols are not treated as puzzles to solve or universal meanings to decode.

Instead, they are approached as living relationships that gradually reveal themselves through careful attention and reflection.

Spirituality without dogma

Many people long for a deeper sense of connection but feel unable to find it within conventional religious or spiritual frameworks. Others have rich spiritual lives already. Some identify with no spiritual tradition at all.

All are welcome.

This work does not ask anyone to adopt particular beliefs.

Instead, it creates conditions in which people can encounter experiences of belonging, wonder, gratitude, mystery and interconnectedness, and discover their own language for making sense of those experiences.

Some may speak of God.

Others of Gaia.

Others of nature.

Others simply of profound aliveness.

None of these responses is imposed.

Each arises through personal experience.

Threading the Wild

The name reflects the spirit of this work.

A thread does not pull us through life.

It helps us remain connected while we explore.

As in the ancient story of Ariadne, the thread allows us to enter unfamiliar landscapes without losing ourselves.

The wild is not only found in forests or mountains.

It exists wherever life exceeds our attempts to control it: within landscapes, within relationships, within imagination, and within ourselves.

To thread the wild is to enter into a relationship with that living mystery while remaining grounded, reflective and supported.

How the journey unfolds

The programme consists of twelve individual therapeutic sessions, each accompanied by reflections and explorations between meetings.

The work does not happen only in the therapy room.

Between sessions, you will spend time observing places, reading, journalling, noticing seasonal changes, encountering particular species, revisiting meaningful landscapes, reflecting on dreams, or simply paying closer attention to the subtle conversations already taking place between yourself and the world around you.

Our sessions become places of return.

Places where experience is reflected upon, integrated and allowed to find its own meaning.

Who is this for?

This work may resonate if you are:

  • seeking a deeper sense of meaning and belonging;

  • navigating a significant life transition;

  • longing to reconnect with yourself beyond constant thinking;

  • interested in the relationship between psychology, ecology and spirituality;

  • curious about Jungian ideas, phenomenology or contemplative practice;

  • aware that your relationship with places has always mattered, but unsure why;

  • searching for a thoughtful, grounded exploration of aliveness that honours both intellectual enquiry and lived experience.

Ultimately...

I do not believe that healing comes from nature alone.

Nor do I believe it comes solely from insight.

Healing often begins when relationships are restored.

"It’s the relationship that heals, the relationship that heals, the relationship that heals."

[Irvin Yalom | Love's Executioner]

 

Our relationship with ourselves.

Our relationship with others.

Our relationship with place.

Our relationship with the living world.

And perhaps, quietly, our relationship with whatever each of us understands as sacred.

Threading the Wild is an invitation into that conversation.

Other Ways to Experience Threading the Wild

The twelve-session therapeutic journey is the heart of Threading the Wild. It offers the time, continuity and reflective space needed for a gradual exploration of your own relationship with the living world.

Over time, this work will also be available in other formats for those who wish to engage with the same philosophy in different ways.

Residential Weekend Immersions

A small-group, residential experience held in carefully chosen natural settings.

Rather than following the full twelve-session journey, these long weekends offer an immersive introduction to the core themes of Threading the Wild through direct experience, embodied practices, reflective conversations, journalling, ecological observation and time spent in the landscape itself.

The residential format is designed for people who wish to step away from everyday life for a few days and experience these ideas within a shared community.

Four-Month Experiential Course

A structured educational and experiential programme exploring the relationship between psychology, phenomenology, ecology, embodiment and the living world.

While inspired by the same philosophical foundations, the course has a broader educational focus and is suitable for those interested in exploring these themes beyond individual psychotherapy.

Further details will be announced as the programme develops.

Copyright and Intellectual Property

Threading the Wild is an original therapeutic framework created and developed by Matilde Gliubich Tomat as part of his ongoing work integrating existential psychotherapy, phenomenology, ecology, Jungian psychology, anthropology and the original methodology of Paleophenomenology.

All written materials, programme structures, session content, exercises, handouts, journal prompts, educational resources and accompanying texts are protected by copyright.

These materials are provided solely for the personal use of participants and may not be reproduced, distributed, adapted, taught, published or incorporated into other therapeutic, educational or commercial programmes without the prior written permission of the author.

© 2026 Matilde Gliubich Tomat. All rights reserved.

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Investment

Threading the Wild is a structured twelve-session therapeutic journey.

Each session lasts approximately 60 minutes and is charged on a sliding scale between £65 and £55 per session.

I believe that meaningful therapeutic work should be both valued and, wherever possible, accessible. The sliding scale allows those who are able to contribute at the higher end to support the continued accessibility of the programme for others.

You will be receiving: a structured programme; therapeutic support; educational input; curated resources; an original methodology; continuity across twelve sessions.

I simply ask that you choose a fee within this range that genuinely reflects your current financial circumstances.

The agreed fee remains the same throughout the twelve-session journey.

Payment is made in advance of each session as per the usual contract, unless an alternative arrangement has been agreed.

There is an option to pay for the 12 sessions upfront, with a 10% discount. 

As this is a professional psychotherapy programme, the same cancellation policy and contractual terms that apply to my regular therapy sessions also apply to Threading the Wild.

Please refer to the therapeutic agreement for full details.

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